1 Cor 6:16 Or do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, “The two will become one flesh.” ESV
BREAKING SOUL TIES(B)
There are certain things that hold a soul tie in place. If we must break soul ties completely, we need to take radical steps for a lasting and enduring result. Soul ties are strong, when they are not broken, the forces behind it doesn't respect whether you are saved, a preacher or a church founder. A preacher once confirmed this by saying that if he meets his old girl friend, the tendency of committing immorality is high. He knows what he was saying. This is one of the mystery of sexual immorality that many believers do not understand. You are no longer who you are after a round of sex, so many transactions( giving, receiving & bonding) has taken place and you will need a complete divine overhaul to be whole again because after sexual intercourse, a part of you is deposited with each other.
After repentance, you can break soul ties by breaking vows made through endearing words and doing away with gifts received during the sinful relationship. The latter may be hard for so many folks to do but it works. Words & gifts perpetuate soul ties. I have seen some folks playing with fire. They still collect gifts from their ex boyfriends/ girlfriends whom they were sexually active with and still use endearing words when communicating with them. Doing this, they are strengthening the ties that binds. Though there's no commitment between them any longer but their bodies are prepared to give expression to the ties that binds their soul. Words are powerful, they covenant people together. The careless use of words like "My dear, my Darling, My babe, Honey, mine forever, etc" can strengthen soul ties. Words can lead a woman on to think she still has a place in your life after you've moved on when she doesn't. Gifts cement the covenants and perpetuate it. Don't be a fool, you must deliberately discontinue collecting gifts from someone who once had sex with you or has sexual intentions for you. Sometimes, you may not have had sex with the person but the mood and nuances of the person shows that if there's an opportunity for such, it may happen. From such people, don't collect gifts. I've spoken to people who had sex with a person they didn't have commitment with and i asked, "How did it happen"? Often, the response is always, "I don't know how it happened" but this teaching is the explanation on how it happened- words, gifts& unusual closeness. Often, ladies( even married women) can perceive from afar men with unholy interests but quite a number of them ignore this red flag thinking they can handle it but they forget that words & gifts has created a soul tie already. This doesn't exempt married folks. If you are married, don't be careless in collecting gifts from the opposite sex especially your ex or those showing unholy interest in you. You will press a self destruct button for your marriage soon. Even some bitter divorcee still have sex secretly yet there's no longer commitment to live together. Dearest, soul tie is powerful.
The bible told us to flee all appearances of evil(1Thess5:22). If you have truly repented and have decided never to return to your vomit, do away with gifts gotten from that sinful relationship and break the vows/ covenants cut through endearing words. Where possible, return what you can return. You can't be driving the car of your former sex partner and think he doesn't have in-road into your heart any longer, that's a foolish joke. Return the car and trust God for yours. The fight against sin could be tough but it is worth it as nothing is too much to do for eternity sake. The power of life and death is in the tongue. You can give life to the soul tie that binds you through your words and you can put soul tie to death permanently through your words. Never think those words were spoken into thin air and are gone. There are spirits that pick words to ensure they are fulfilled. Now that you are blood washed, you must not be ignorant of this at the detriment of your sexual purity. Break those vows using the name of Jesus Christ and return gifts collected during such unholy engagements where possible.
I break every vow made during unholy relationship(s) perpetuating unholy soul ties in my life. I renounce every endearing word spoken to me and by me to a sex partner aside my spouse. I nullify their effect over me in Jesus name. Blood of Jesus, purify my heart and cleanse me totally. I receive the grace to do away with gifts gotten through unholy relationship in Jesus name.