Proverbs18:1 Unfriendly people care only about themselves; they lash out at common sense. NLT
YOUR SOCIAL LIFE
When we talk about social life, what comes to the mind of some is involvement in entertainment and wild parties. However, the simplest way to understanding social life is by linking it to the actions that a human being carries out in contact with other people. Interpersonal relationship defines social life. For a believer, our interactions with people should be within the confines of what is acceptable in scriptures. God's prescription for a good scoial life in Hebrews 12:14 is: "Work at living in peace with everyone,.."
As a single willing to be married, you must develop the social aspect of your life in way that is biblical and beneficial to humanity. Those who don't know how to get along with people may find it hard getting along with their spouses in marriage. There are single folks that are known trouble makers in their social circle. In their community, they don't greet neither do they show courtesy and respect. They don't have good friends because they're social persona non grata. Even their immediate family members have turned them to prayer projects. It is impossible for people with such antecedents to have a blissful marriage. People bring who they are into their marriage.
You must invest in this part of your life before saying "Yes I do". You can improve your social life by realizing that you'll always need people at every stage of your life. Even Jesus, the incarnate son of God couldn't fulfill his assignment on earth without humans. He had a social circle of 12 disciples. In marriage, your social circle will widen to include your spouse, in-laws and friends. Some are having serious problems with their in-laws not because their in-laws are bad but because of their deficiency in social skills. You need to learn how to care, love and bear with people without comprising your faith.
Father, I receive grace