Psl35:1-Plead my cause, O LORD, with them that strive with me: fight against them that fight me.
There are problems called 'Post-dated' problems just as we have a post-dated cheque. These types of problems are demonic problems programmed into the life of a man or woman to manifest at a later date, time or season of their lives.
If most of those women that have delay in child-bearing today knew before marriage that they would experience delay, may be they would have started praying a long time. Something can be programmed into a man's life in 1980 to manifest in 2020.
The devil won't tell you that he has programmed somethings to happen in your life in 10yrs time, you should project into your marriage, career, health&ministry with the eye of the Spirit and deal with whatever the enemy may have programmed into it.
You can deal with post-dated problems like barreness, delay in marriage, strife in marriage, joblessness, divorce, cancer,diabetes, hypertension, fibroid, poverty and so on IF you can PRAY POST-DATED PRAYERS.
Every Post-dated problems(you can mention reoccuring family problems), disappear in my life In Jesus Name.