Gal3:19- What then was the purpose of the law? It was added[...to disclose and expose to men their guilt]because of transgressions and[to make men more conscious of the sinfulness]of sin;...AMP
Someone I respect so much said he must marry a virgin because God commanded the priests to marry virgins in the OT, another person said there are certain assignments God can't use disvirgined ladies for. In as much as I don't support immorality, I know those assertions are wrong and doesn't apply to a sister that has repented&living holy.
Do you know the first female evangelist in the bible? It was that adulterous woman Jesus met at the well in Jhn4, after talking to Jesus, she went round telling people she had seen the messiah vs28-30. Mary Magdalene had seven demons casted out of her,yet she was very useful in Jesus' ministry, the law would prescribe stoning for a witch like her but Jesus would deliver&restore.
When you come to the cross, the blood of Christ cleanses you perfectly such that no record of your past remains. Heb8:12. The spirit of the law will tell you God can't use you neither can you marry a good man because you're not a virgin but grace will tell you, once you repent&forsake your evil ways, you deserve God's best. Halleluyah!!!
Take out time to read the whole book of Romans and Galatians prayerfully without being biased. Salvation is by grace not of works so that you won't boast. Eph2:8
I expel false religious beliefs by the word In Jesus Name.