1 Corinthians 6:18 *"Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body*".
*EFFECTS OF PORN IN MARRIAGE*(c)
No need to experiment with porn as couples. It does no good to your marriage. Any counselor telling you to learn from porn is speaking for Satan not God. He is not helping your marriage in any way. Such a person is inviting demons into your bedroom. Porn damages more than it repairs. If
The way sex in marriage is exaggerated by some counselors is the reason some couples took to porn. As much as I agree that sex plays a vital role in marriage, yet that truth can be overstretched beyond limit in a way that will lead some of course. Sex has been exaggerated.
*3#.PORN FUELS LUST AND INFIDELITY*
Matthew 5:28 says, *"But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart*" (NLT)
It is impossible to watch porn and not lust after those images. In fact, porn is designed to stir lust in viewers. It does not communicate purity in any form. I am yet to see "Holy Porn" or someone who gets baptized with the Holy Spirit while watching porn.
Anyone who takes delight in watching the nakedness of another person for pleasure is captured by lust already. Lust is dangerous because it is subtle and hidden yet it is a deadly 'cancer' that eats people up from within.
The first problem lust will create is dissatisfaction. The moment the arrow of lust is fired into your soul through porn, you will never be be satisfied with the spouse of your youth. The desire to explore will increase. That will create a second problem- infidelity.
Those that are caught in the trap of infidelity are never satisfied with one sex partner. They take advantage of anyone that is available to satisfy their lustful cravings. Why? Porn has opened up a pool of untamed sexual passion in them.
They are always in search of a replica of that porn star who can satisfy their cravings. That search never ends well because they will never find the perfect fit. That is why infidelity is dangerous. It doesn't guarantee satisfaction.
Lust makes a man see every woman as a sex object. Their wives may be the most beautiful yet they will run after anything in skirt. When a woman is captured by lust, she will always compare her husband's sexual performance with that of her ex. She'll be searching for a bedroom performer not minding If such men are on drugs. They'll derive their sense of worth from penis size instead of a functioning brain.
If you are trapped in the cocoon of lust, you need thorough mind renewal through the word of God and deliverance. There is a demon of lust that must be displaced.
As usual, let's pray the prayer of the psalmist in Psalm 119:37: *"Turn my eyes from looking at worthless things; and give me life in your ways*".