Proverbs 2:11 *Discretion will protect you, and understanding will guard you*.
A sister once took my name and some brothers somewhere to check who among us was her husband. What I can't tell was if the seer was a prophet or a traditional diviner. This incident happened towards the end of my service year.
The seer or diviner told her that my morning, afternoon and evening is good. I guess mine was the only perfect fit for her so I was recommended to her as husband. You may wonder how I got these details. Actually, she informed my predecessor about it thinking she could go through him to convince me for marriage.
I don't think I spoke to this sister on any matter because I related with her zonal leader. More so she was living in a zone that is almost 2-3hours drive from where I was. I noticed this sister would send her pictures to me via email. At other times, she visited our lodge without prior notification all because a seer told her I was her husband.
I didn't hear anything from her again not until after service. One bright afternoon, I received a call from a man who introduced himself as a Pastor to this sister. I was shocked. In my mind, I thought the chase ended in service.
He said her spiritual daughter told him I was interested in her and that he's been praying about me. He called to confirm if I was truly interested. I told him point blank that I was never interested in her neither did I say anything that suggested such.
I made him realize her spiritual daughter was the one who took my name somewhere and was talking to people to talk to me like he was doing. Quickly, he cut the call.
*Dear single, long before you reach the point of making a choice of whom to marry, develop the ability to hear from God and how to discern his voice rightly*.
Only babies and mischievous people take names and pictures around for someone to help see visions.
*I believe in bible-based counseling from mature Christians on the issue of marriage but I don't subscribe to the idea of getting someone to see visions for you on the choice of whom to marry*.
God is your father, He wants to speak to you about the issues of your life. In His word, He promised to lead and direct us by himself: *"I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye* (Psalm 32:8 KJV).
Our earthly father won't communicate with us by proxy how much more our heavenly father.
*Relationship with God should come first before thinking of relationship with man. You won't get it right with men until you get it right with God. No guess work in our walk*.
The cordiality of your relationship with God will help you to discern the right relationship to enter with men without needing someone to consult for you. Beware of patronising "spiritual consultants" on the choice of whom to marry.
*The ability to make informed decisions and stand by it and take responsibility is known as maturity*.
We decide for babies and take responsibility for them to a large extent but if as an adult, someone else decide for you, you'll bear the consequences and take all the responsibility.
*If you're not mature enough to hear from God by yourself on day-to-day decisions, don't bother getting married until that aspect is sorted*.
Father, I receive the grace to stay in fellowship with you, to discern your voice and to be led by the Spirit on all matters in Jesus name.