I listened to a woman who spoke about her despicable condition. In her family, everything collapsed. Her husband lost his job, they could not afford rent so they moved into an uncompleted building. They struggled to make ends meet but all failed.

Not long after, a family friend who knew what was going on offered to help. He gave them free accommodation in one of his properties and ensured they were comfortable. Later, this man appeared as one who hunt for vulnerable people in need of help. 

Not long after, he asked the woman out for an affair. She fell for it too probably because she saw it as a way of paying back all his kind deeds. Her husband did not know what was happening but the wife of the other man got a tip off and disgraced this woman publicly. 

Some sexual groomers always hunt for vulnerable people. They know it is easy to get those facing tough times in life because their defenses are weak and are often desperate for help. A sexual groomer knows all these and will be on the look out for such persons. A lady desperately in need of a job might fall prey of a sexual predator. A young man in need of breakthrough might fall into the hands of rich women who need sex studs.  That's why you should never appear to be deserately in need of help. 

Sometimes, some groomers pose as counselors who want to help vulnerable people. In the process, they take advantage of their clients. This is very common. Some women who fell into the hands of molesters who went to them for counseling. In the process, it happened. That's why I don't advise any male to counsel a female alone. 

A lady posted online that she had some challenges that led her to a pastor. Unknown to her, this pastor was a groomer. Knowing her condition and how desperate she wanted a solution, the pastor told her the solution to her problem was in his penis and he will have to insert his anointed penis into her. This lady agreed. Her eyes became clear after the act. She did it because she was desperate for solution.

Some ladies also hunt for weak male counselors. They go to them crying and sobbing. Some men cannot stand the tears of a woman, they become so emotional. While trying to give a pat in the back or a hug, their emotions are set ablaze. Bro, avoid body contact with a crying lady and never counsel the opposite sex alone. 

I want you to know that life happens to us in one way or the other. During your low moments, you should know that it is not everyone/ anyone you can share the happenings in your life with. That is the reason I advocate that believers surround themselves with men and women of wisdom who have a track record of integrity. 

Before life's troubles come, I have people around me whose wisdom, insight and integrity I have tested over time, to such people I run to when I have issues to discuss. Do not run to just any fine talker to share your issues regardless of the person's title or ecclesiastical position. Prove men first and ensure they are worthy of the task. 

You'll be making yourself a victim of hunters of vulnerable souls If you talk to just anyone. I'll say it again, you don't always have to share your issues with the opposite sex. There are anointed, wise and credible counselors of the same gender you can talk to.

 As a woman, why discuss the weakness of your husband with another man? What If he is a groomer and hunter of women in your shoes? As a man, why discuss the weakness of your wife with another woman? Are you sure you will still be standing after that woman proves she is better than your wife in her areas of weaknesses?