NLTll respected preacher shared his experience about how a sister groomed him for sexual immorality. He was naive because all his life, he had only known one woman and he married as a virgin but this lady craftily had her way into his heart. He was at the brink of falling into the act before he realized Satan almost got him. 

He told us that anytime he sees any lady who exhibit a little trait the other lady exhibited, he'll cut off immediately because he realized anyone can be groomed for immorality. How I wish we all can be sensitive to groomers as well. They are around us and do not respect our wedding band. 

I have had the privilege of talking to people who fell into immorality. In counseling, i've also been privileged to talk to married folks who fell into adultery and some persons whose superiors had sex with them. Sad to say, but I have handled cases involving preachers and church folks too. 

In my observation, everyone (either male/ female) who fell victim of sexual immorality were groomed for it in one way or the other. They may not know but it is obvious that they were groomed for the action. Even victims of sexual abuse ( especially children)  are groomed for the act. Adults, children & teenagers can be groomed for immorality If not careful.

What is grooming? It is the practice of preparing or training someone for a particular purpose or activity. Sexual predators often prepare the minds of their victims with skill and subtlety. Everyone must be on guard against this.

Some married men or women may not have the mind of committing the sin of immorality but they were loose and didn't mount guard over their hearts until they fell victim of an expert who groomed them into the act. Some pious looking women are not exempted either. 

When I read about Baltazar Egonga's sexcapades with over 400 women including a pastor's wife and other high ranking women, I concluded he must have groomed most of them for the act. Those women may not be "immoral" in the sense of someone who hop from bed to bed. Some may have married as chaste virgins but they fell into the hands of a man who knows how to groom anyone for the act and were not mindful of it. 

God is calling me and you to up our consecration in this matter because anyone that is not careful can be a victim. This has nothing to do with how anointed you are. In fact, the more anointed you are, the more you attract people who wouldn't mind to taste you. You know what I mean? 

In a world where some grand mothers are falling into immorality and some members in the church are sleeping with their pastors' wives, you should know that anything can happen. Satan is all out for everyone who is not careful. One cannot be over careful in this matter. 

The sin of sexual immorality is a demonic fast-action tool in the hands of Satan to empty people of their glories and greatness. As far as I am concerned, there is a demon behind it considering how "cheap" it is to get sex these days.

Unfortunately, this sin doesn't spare anyone except those that mount guard. It is no news that some preachers and respected people in the society fall victim. Anyone with blood running in his/ her veins is a potential victim. Age is not even an issue in this matter.